Monday, 16 April 2012
If there is one thing that will ensure your
happiness, it's personal growth. What do I
mean? Well, if you agree that happiness is
the most important thing in life and that
almost everything we do is to move towards
being happier, then you will understand that
in order to be happy, we must know that
we are continually growing. This can mean
different things to different people. In this
article, I will be writing about the different
paths to growth as well as give you some
tips on how you can work on this area of
your life. Before I get into that, let's first
explore why this is even something you
should spend time on.
We al have dreams and goals, at least at one
point in our lives. For some people, they
have lost their reason for going for anything
since they have been beaten down by life so
many times. Even then, we all want to know
that we are getting better in some way or
another. Let me ask you a question. If you
look at where you were a year ago and
compare it to where you are now, would
you feel better if you are better now
compared to a year ago or worse? The
obvious answer is you would feel better if
you were better than you were a year ago.
When I say better, what I really mean is
happier. Are you more satisfied now with
your life than you were a year ago?
Now if you answer is no, then you will
understand just why personal growth is so
important in terms of your happiness level.
We all want to become more, to do more,
and to experience more. Sure, some people
may be happy just the way they are now
and there is nothing wrong with that but
unless you are constantly growing, you will
be falling. There's no staying in between.
The world is constantly changing so just to
stay the same, you have to be growing
whether it's physically, mentally, spiritually,
or anything else.
So now that you know how personal
growth and happiness tie together, let's
look at how you can work on improving
yourself.
There are a lot of different personal growth
tools that you can use to help you become a
better you. What you use will just depend on
what area of your life you would like to
work on. If you want to figure out what to
do with your life, then you may want to look
into different careers. You may want to try
out different things or join social circles that
think a bit differently in order to discover
more about yourself. How you approach this
will depend on what works for you.
Personality and personal growth are related.
If you already know what you want to do
but need some inspiration to get you going,
you can do things like read personal growth
books. You can learn a lot of different
insights and skills this way. You can even try
personal growth coaching as well. Basically,
you will have someone who will help you set
up a plan and make sure you follow through
on it. Let's say you want to improve your
physical fitness level. You may want to hire a
coach to help push you and keep you on
track if you have a problem with motivation
in this area.
The main point of all of this is to grow as a
person. One of the worse realizations to
have to deal with is that you are the same or
worse than you were 5 or 10 years ago.
How you feel will really depend on the
importance you put on different areas of
your life. If money is the most important
thing to you, then having less now than you
did 5 years ago might make you feel a bit
lousy. If relationship is the most important
thing to you than knowing that you are
more in love with your spouse now than
you were 5 years ago will make you feel
fantastic.
So what can you do today to help you
become better in whatever area of your life
you want to focus on? You can start by
doing something every day to help improve
that area of your life. It doesn't have to be
any drastic change or anything. Small
actions taken every day will result in gigantic
changes down the road. You can read
personal growth quotes, read books, hire a
coach, or get support from friends and
family, anything to help you focus on your
personal growth. The goals that you set for
yourself are mainly there to help you
become more. It is the person that you
become in the pursuit of your goals that will
make you happy.
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