Thursday, 26 April 2012
Life Motivation
A lack of life motivation can come down to
not knowing what you want in life. It can
also be that you don't really want anything
out of life. However, this is rarely the real
reason for not having motivation in life. It's
hard to find out what you want for your life
if you are currently in a wrong mindset. Let's
say you're stressed out. Would it be a good
time to ask you to put together a business
plan? Probably not. So in order to find that
motivation in your life to do things, you will
first need to get yourself in the right state of
mind. Keep in mind that if you have severe
depression, then you will want to seek
professional help.
The first thing you will need to do is to
understand why you feel the way you feel.
There are basically three factors that will
determine how you feel at any given
moment. The first thing is your physiology. If
you are walking around like you're
depressed, you're going to feel depressed.
Your body posture can have a huge effect in
the way you feel. The next thing is your
focus. If you focus on how life sucks, it'll be
hard to find any motivation to do anything
with your life. The third thing is your
standards. If you have a standard that says,
"It's okay to be mediocre in life", then that is
what you will experience.
So how does knowing these things have to
do with finding motivation in life? Well, as I
mentioned earlier, the reason why you have
a lack of motivation in life is because you
don’t know what it is that you want. The
reason why you don't know what you want
is probably because you are in the state of,
"I don't care". In order to give your life some
meaning and give yourself some life
motivation, you will need to have a purpose.
In order to do this, you will first need to get
out of your lousy mentality.
What you will want to do is to force yourself
to get excited by changing your body
movements. If you are currently moving
slowly, have a slouched back, your head
down, and are breathing shallow, change
that by walking fasters, straightening you
back, put your head up, and breath more
fully. This will create a change in your
physical chemistry and will start to instantly
make you feel better.
The next thing you will want to do is to
focus on the positive things. You can do this
by asking yourself the right questions. So
instead of, "Why does my life suck", you will
want to ask, "What is good in my life right
now? What can I be excited about my life
right now if I really wanted to?" By asking
empowering questions, your mind will start
to focus on empowering things.
The last step to have more motivation for life
is to change your standards. Up until now,
you probably have pretty low standards for
yourself. You don't really expect much out of
your life and therefore have no motivation
in life. The best way to get out of this rut is
to start surrounding yourself with people
who are full of life motivation. Since you
become who you spend most of your time
with, by hanging out with people who are
alive, people who have a purpose and are
going for their dreams and goals, you will
start to pick up their way of thinking as well.
All of these things can change your life. If
you want more information on the above
steps, you can read books on Neuro
Linguistic Programming or NLP for short.
You will learn different skills to help you
instantly change the way you feel. It will help
give you more life motivation so you can
make the best out of this life.
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